There are three primary issues partners encounter as they deal with the fallout of pornography and infidelity 

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1. What will happen to the relationship as they had hoped and expected it to be. This includes social, financial, and parenting.

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2. If they could have prevented the behavior if they would have done a, b, or c, or noticed x, y, and z. 

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3. The emotional fallout for themselves and others.